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The Biblical, Theological Facts on Homosexuality:


Click the image to the left to be taken to an excerpt from the Baker Theological Dictionary Of The Bible. This additional information on homosexuality is offered as a theological supplement to the testimonial information contained in the article you've just read.


Do you want to look up a Bible verse? You can do so at no cost by simply clicking on this link. But I also encourage you to purchase your own Bible very soon, and to begin reading it daily as a healthy practice of devotion and study.


Other Great Testimonies of Freedom from Homosexuality:



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Dying for Love, The Plain Truth About Homosexuality: Pastor Perri Roberts chronicles his remarkable journey from an abused childhood to a young adulthood filled with homosexuality, confusion, torment, and fear, to a glorious victory through Jesus Christ. Beyond his unforgettable story, Roberts offers powerful lessons on the cause of homosexuality, how to find deliverance, how to conduct spiritual warfare, and what Sodom and Gomorrah really mean. Parents, spouses, or others with gay loved ones, or those who want deliverance themselves, will find this book an invaluable map on the road to freedom.



Healing the Masculine Soul: by Gordon Dalbey. In an era when masculinity is often dismissed as violent, destructive, and at best, unnecessary, you're called to a renewal of godly courage and strength, as lover of a woman, father, worker, warrior, and church member. You began life with a natural, life-or-death dependency upon a woman, within your own mother's womb. In order to grow into manhood, a boy needed a father to call him away from the woman, and into the company of men. Many men today can't do that for their sons, however, because their own fathers did not do it for them. That deep wound of abandonment still festers in our masculine soul.



Preventing Homosexuality: What can be done to foster the development of healthy heterosexual orientation in our children? The clinical experience of Dr. Nicolosi and others, and their careful look at the professional literature, is an invaluable resource to parents.




Getting It Straight: Homosexual activism on television, and in the media, makes outlandish research claims to further their agenda. But if you want to know the truth of what current research actually says about homosexuality, then this book is a must for you.




Bringing Up Boys: Focus on the Family's, Dr. James Dobsin, provides the essential information all parents need who are raising young boys to become Christian men of integrity.




Wild At Heart: John Eldredge takes adult men on a truly awesome adventure and journey to rediscover their God-given essence as men in a fallen world. Great read for married women as well. But definitely a "must read" for all men!




The Way Of The Wild Heart: This sequel reaches out to "unfinished men" trying to understand and live their role as men and fathers. Picking up where Wild at Heart (see above) left off, it explores six biblically based stages, initiating men into a new understanding and ownership of their manhood, and equipping them to effectively lead their sons to manhood.



Captivating: What Wild at Heart did for men, Captivating does for women! John & Staci Eldredge take adult women on an uplifting journey to rediscover their God-given essence as women in a fallen world. Great read for husbands too! But definitely a "must read" for all women!



Like Mother Like Daughter: Jakii Edwards takes readers through a personal account of the detrimental effects upon a child who has been raised by a homosexual parent.




Restoring Sexual Identity: Former Homosexual, Anne Paulk, authors this work as a resource for women who struggle with same-sex attraction.




Desires In Conflict/Series: Psychologist and former homosexual, Joe Dallas, authors resources for men who struggle with same-sex attraction, for confronting the "gay-Christian" movement, and for family members of homosexuals.




Sex, Lies & The Media: Essential resource for parents. Help children develop healthy, godly attitudes toward sexuality in an age when sex is a marketing tool for everything. Full of statistics, teen language and context, and facts about how the media's promotion of sexual freedom is destroying the sanctity and Biblical confines of marital sex as a gift from God.



Wilkinson Series: Bruce Wilkinson, author of The Prayer of Jabez, offers this series of works as a resource for practical, Christian living.




Every Man's Battle: Winning the war on sexual temptation one victory at a time. This book shatters the perception that men are unable to control their roving eyes, with the stories of dozens who have escaped the trap of sexual immorality, and presents a practical, detailed plan for any man who desires sexual purity.



The Agenda: Conservative, Christian pastor, Rev. Louis P. Sheldon, of the Traditional Values Coalition , exposes the hidden agenda of the homosexual movement in our schools, in our courts and even in our churches with documentation never before revealed. An informative, eye-opener for all!


Recommended Audio, DVD & Internet Media:


Speechless - Silencing the Christians is a "must-see" for those who are still unaware of the double-standard that homosexual activism is imposing upon Christian beliefs throughout our American society today. This shocking, 1-hour documentary exposes the negative impact that the radical, leftist, homosexual agenda is having upon our society, as it sweeps across major cities throughout the United States, and North America. You can watch "Speechless - Silencing the Christians," right here, right now, on the digital viewer below:

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Focus Action Update: People who are highly motivated can change their sexual orientation, according to a review of a century's worth of research. In this edition, Stuart Shepard talks with Melissa Fryrear, who knows from personal experience that change is possible. A "Focus on the Family" piece.



OnePlace.com: This is a web site that links you to numerous, well known and searchable, Christian radio programs and daily commentaries, helping you to stay well informed on current events effecting our Christian beliefs and freedoms.


It's Not Gay: A story that few have heard. Former homosexuals tell their own story in their own words. Along with medical and mental health experts, these individuals express a clear warning that the sanitized version of homosexuality being presented to students is not the whole truth. Uncompromising, yet compassionate. A fair and balanced approach to this challenging subject.

Watch it online right now: Once the AFR Player opens, click on "Video and Audio Archives" in the right menu box, then click on, "It's Not Gay," in the subsequent, title selection menu.



They're Coming To Your Town: Residents of the small Arkansas town of Eureka Springs noticed the homosexual community was growing. But they felt no threat. They went about their business as usual. Then the Eureka Springs they knew is gone. The City Council had been taken over by a small group of homosexual activists. It is now a national hub for homosexuals. Eureka Springs is fast becoming the San Francisco of Arkansas. The story of how this happened is told in this DVD.


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American Association of Christian Counselors' Christian Care Network is a national referral network of state licensed and/or certified professional counselors, offering you care that is distinctively Christian and clinically excellent. If you would like to look into talking with a counselor about your homosexual behavior, this is a great place to find one in your area.


Worthy Creations is an interdenominational Christian ministry that was founded in 1986, and which is dedicated to helping men and women find freedom from homosexuality and sexual brokenness. They operate locally in South Florida and are a part of the worldwide network of Exodus International. This is the same ministry that was also featured in the Speechless episode, which is available for viewing above.


Porn-Free.org helps people discover the truth about pornography and "sexual" addictions. Free, online course study materials and information also available for many subject areas. While sex is a wonderful, God-given gift, it can be abused like a drug for a variety of reasons. Today, many people find themselves captive to addictive cycles of viewing pornography, masturbation, illicit sex, homosexuality, online affairs, prostitution, phone sex and other sexual activities. If you think you are addicted or know someone who is, this site will indeed be helpful to you!


People Can Change is a Yahoo-based, non-religious, members only support group, created by ex-homosexual men, who desire to help and encourage others in their mutual goals to become free and remain free from homosexuality. There is also a lot of helpful information available there, without joining the group.


NotReligion.com "It's not about Religion--it is about a Relationship." This site is an innovative and thought-provoking ministry of Back to the Bible, a worldwide Christian ministry dedicated to leading people into a dynamic relationship with God. Specifically designed to reach those who are seeking, confused, skeptical of or turned off by religion.


Healing for the Soul is the private practice of Jayson Graves, M.MFT. Based in Colorado Springs, CO, Jayson serves a local, national, and international clientele. He uses an innovative, faith-based approach that can involve individual, couples, and/or group therapy over the telephone or in person.


Since 1979, Regeneration Ministries has seen hundreds of people find hope, healing and freedom. They are available to serve individuals who struggle with pornography, sexual temptations or homosexuality and want to change. Fantastic News Letters also available, online.


Most of the materials that have been produced to address LGBT issues in schools do not present the ex-gay perspective. The ridicule that ex-gays often face is not even mentioned. Our goal is to facilitate the development of tangible solutions to the problems faced by lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, transgendered, and ex-gay students on high school and college campuses, all while maintaining that the possibility of change must be presented for those who desire this path.



A service of Abiding Truth Ministries, helping families protect themselves from the "gay" agenda.


A non-profit coalition of organizations helping people with unwanted same-sex attractions to realize their personal goals for change, whether by developing their innate heterosexual potential or by embracing a lifestyle as a single, non-sexually active man or woman.


National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality. The right to seek therapy to change one's sexual adaptation should be considered self-evident and inalienable.


Free, online, self-help courses offering a mentor, designed to help individuals break the chains of addiction associated with homosexuality, pornography and drug use.



Dr. Beverly LaHaye's Concerned Women for America is an organization that is bringing the Women's Movement in America back underneath a banner of Judeo-Christian values.


Christian recording artist, evangelist and former homosexual, Stephen Bennett, has a heart of love to reach the homosexual community for Jesus Christ. Complete change IS completely possible!


The SBM store offers numerous resources to help those struggling to overcome same-sex attraction, and for the family and friends who struggle to support them and understand their battle.


Evangelist, preacher and former homosexual, Tim Wilkins, offers a wealth of articles and resources for churches and individuals alike, as well as the "More Than Words" conference.



Exodus is the largest Christian referral and information ministry dealing with homosexual issues in our world today. Through this link you can locate and contact numerous Exodus support/accountability groups throughout America, and internationally as well.



Courage, an apostolate of the Roman Catholic Church, ministers to those with same-sex attractions and their loved ones. They are endorsed by the Pontifical Council for the Family.


The most complete resource for Latter-day Saints (the Mormons) on same-sex attraction. Offers help to people who want to diminish these attractions and overcome homosexual behavior. It is also a resource to their loved ones, professional counselors, religious leaders, and friends.
NOTE:
I do not endorse the beliefs of the LDS Church. However I offer this link realizing that Mormons may desire to seek help from within their own church.




Jonah is a non-profit international organization dedicated to educating the world-wide Jewish community about the prevention, intervention, and healing of the underlying issues causing same-sex attractions.



Witness Freedom Ministries has been at the forefront of public outreach to men and women of color who struggle to overcome same sex attractions and desires. We have no methods, only a timeless and proven message: Jesus Christ came to heal, deliver and set free!


Reality Resources (Transgender Issues Ministry): Jerry and Charlene Leach co-direct an international ministry to those afflicted with gender identity confusion, homosexuality, and sexual addiction. They have experienced first-hand what it takes to obtain freedom and remain free of unhealthy behavior and its root causes. Charlene offers the unique perspective of a wife who has responded to her husband's sexual brokenness.



The Family Research Council: Defending Family, Faith and Freedom. Link here as a source of news, numerous articles, political activism and online petitions to Congress.




Family is an institution established by God. Building and keeping them strong is the heart and mission of Dr. James Dobson's Focus on the Family.


The mission of Sight Ministry is to provide individuals struggling with sexual brokenness and/or same-sex attractions a safe place to receive "sight" through compassion and love based upon the uncompromising Truth of the Word of God.


Biblical Counseling Keys are invaluable resources based on the fundamental truths of the Word of God. After years of Bible study, research and counseling experience, June Hunt has developed this immensely practical material based on almost 100 pertinent topics, including homosexuality.


Recommended Conferences:


More Than Words is a compelling 1-day conference geared to help you better understand homosexuality so you can minister to a friend or family member. You will learn how to respond to "gay theology", what the research really shows, and what your church can do. More Than Words goes beyond "talk" to actually walking people out of homosexuality. The complexity of homosexuality will crumble as you discover the root issues, explore the biblical record and witness the dynamic truths that lead to freedom from homosexuality.


Focus on the Family is promoting the truth that homosexuality is preventable and treatable--a message routinely silenced today. We want people to know that individuals don't have to be gay. That's why we've developed a one-day conference for those looking for answers on this often-divisive issue. Whether you are an educator, parent, concerned citizen or even a gay activist, Love Won Out will inform, inspire and offer you hope.


An intensive, encouraging, informative and personal weekend conference for church leaders and others wanting to be equipped to effectively minister to those who are struggling with homosexuality. For men and women looking to change their unwanted same sex attractions or unhappy with their homosexual thoughts, actions and lifestyles. For broken hearted parents, family members and friends of homosexuals, looking for answers and ways to help their loved ones out of homosexuality.


Recommendedd Articles:


In What Research Shows: NARTH offers a landscape review of more than one hundred years of experiential evidence, from over 600 clinical studies, and research studies that demonstrate that it is possible for men and women to diminish their unwanted homosexual attractions and develop their heterosexual potential. Further, mental health professionals competent to provide such care ethically may do so.



Tim Wilkins of Cross Ministry answers a legitimate question in his short article, If Opposites Attract, Why Same-Sex Attraction? Gay men lack the sense of masculinity and are attracted to that which is obviously opposite from them--the masculine sex.


succeedsocially.com: This site is a collection of articles on various topics related to social skills and getting along with other people. However, taken as a whole, it's also a guide on how shy, lonely, socially awkward people can get over their issues. Definitely worth your time!



This helpful site calls itself, "Your Life, Family and Culture Outpost." Packed full of useful information and articles like this one, titled, Same-Sex 'Marriage' and the Culture War .


American Family Association is committed to keeping Christians well informed and is heavily involved in activism to protect Judeo-Christian values in America. Site includes a section of information on the deceptive Homosexual Agenda to indoctrinate our society into homosexuality.



A mega-site providing Biblical answers to contemporary questions for all ages and nationalities with over 30-thousand files. Featured article: "What About Gays Need to Change?" by Tim Wilkins of Cross Ministry.


World Net Daily - free press for a free people: Includes featured article by Stephen Bennett, "Was Jesus Gay?" along with other articles written from the Christian perspective.


The Real Gay Agenda, Exposed!


A group dedicated to exposing the homosexual activist agenda. Founded by Peter LaBarbera in 1996, and newly reorganized in 2006, AFTAH seeks to apply the same single-minded determination to opposing the radical homosexual agenda and standing for God-ordained sexuality and the natural family, as countless homosexual groups do in promoting their harmful agenda.



The "Gay Revolution" is real! And the extremist, homosexual sentiments expressed within this linked article have been embraced by many gay rights activists.

WARNING: THE CONTENT OF THIS HOMOSEXUAL MANIFESTO WILL BE OFFENSIVE TO SOME READERS

If you think that the radical changes about homosexuality in the minds of Americans, and in your own mind, over the past decade are any accident, then you must read this article!



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